Memorial Services for Veterans

By: Matthew Funeral Home
Monday, November 4, 2024

As Veteran’s Day approaches, we wanted to share information on veteran memorial services and funerals. A big part of planning a funeral for veterans or servicemembers is the memorialization of their service. There are many ways that a funeral service can be prepared for members of the armed forces. Speak with your Funeral Director about contacting the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) for additional resources. The VA may be able to provide your family with financial assistance or personalization materials for the funeral, monument, and more.

American Flags

For veterans, the presentation of an American flag is often a major part of the funeral. Folded flags in display cases are often purchased by families for the funeral service, or as a memorial in their home. 

Burial in Uniform

Some veterans choose to be buried in uniform as opposed to a suit or similar burial clothing. The VA may be able to help you acquire a burial uniform if your loved one’s original uniform does not fit or was lost. You should look at your loved one’s funeral wishes to see if they mention burial in uniform.

Flowers and Donations

Like with most funerals, flowers are usually acceptable; but as the family of the deceased, you may choose to ask that in place of flowers donations to a charity be made. Your loved one may have also specified preferences about sending flowers in their funeral plans.

Monuments

Monuments can be designed to honor your loved one and their service. The VA can offer monuments or customization options to veterans who meet certain requirements. We also offer services for monument creation and customization.

Medallions

Medallions are metal plates affixed to a monument that highlights your loved one’s service to their country. The VA may offer to provide a medallion or cover the cost of one for your loved one’s monument. Matthew Funeral Home also has medallions for your loved one’s monument in our memorial shop.

Ceremonies

You can request a military service burial. This can include the burial by servicemen, an honor guard, or a 21-gun salute. Speak with your funeral director or a VA representative for assistance with ceremonial coordination.

For over 50 years, Matthew Funeral Home has been serving the Staten Island community. We can help with almost every aspect of your loved one’s memorial service. Our family is here to serve yours, every step of the way.

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